A couple wishing to really make a statement at their wedding may want to invest in truly unique centerpieces. The couple may have different ideas about what type of wedding they want and also about what they can afford.
The material of the ring is an important consideration for both men's and women's rings. Clear glass bowls can be filled with colorful candies such as jelly beans or M and Ms to create a lovely and very inexpensive centerpiece that reflects the personalities of the bride and groom. If you are more formally oriented, or if the shower will be held at a formal location, you may wish to stay with the conservative ensemble of a skirt and blouse, or perhaps a pair of dressy slacks and a nice blouse.
It is also not appropriate to hold the wedding shower very early in the engagement before the couple has had the opportunity to create their registry. It is also important to partition a small amount of money for incidentals to account for small unexpected expenses. If you plan to have a wedding with a relaxed atmosphere you can afford to be creative and original in your wording but if your wedding will be more conservative you will want to use language that will convey this sentiment.
While including out of town guests is a wonderful gesture, it is important to understand that the couple is not obligated to do so. Last of all, remember to relax.